question about the group/ raid Bar
 

I am sure there is a way and I am just missing it. Is there a way to make the groups stay organized, i.e. group 1 first in the frame, then 2 , then 3 and so on and so forth. I appreciate your help

If I remember correctly (and I may not) the answer is currently "no". It has something to do with the way Blizz does things, not with nUI per se.

Yeah, from memory, everytime someone leaves or enters the group/raid blizz reorders the frames again and being secure frames it is hard to rearrange if this happens during combat.

But initially things should be in an order of sorts, perhaps group/alpha order.