Well, X-Perl shows it, but not very noticeably. FYI, I am one of those people who can't use anything BUT X-Perl.
But I'm looking for something that will actually alert me, not just provide that info.
Tank Alert is good, and though I haven't tried it yet, it sounds like it might be a little spammy for my tastes. I'll give it a shot tonight, though.
I'll probably just end up making my own mod to do it just right, as soon as this semester is over. I'm thinking of something that will let you add any number of party / raid members to the list of watched players, and will alert you when they take a certain amount of damage over a certain amount of time.
All members of a raid end up taking damage at one point or another, I don't want to know when they're taking damage, just when they're taking enough that it's probably something I need to stop. Is this method of thinking fallacy? Should I just get Tank Alert and trust what it's telling me?
By the way, I really appreciate the good tanking insights you guys have provided. Keep it coming if you have any more for me.