I want to see the active (de)buffs etc ...
What are my options since I not 100% happy with inline aura
Can anyone give me a list of possible addons who do this kind of stuff
The way Inline Aura works is that is displays a timer on a button in relation to the buffs/debuffs that are on the target and yourself.
You can do all sorts of fun stuff with it, like set Inline Aura to highlight a certain ability when a certain proc goes off. A lot of these effects are part of the defaults. Examples:
Highlights Dispel Magic when the target has a removable (de)buff on them.
Highlights your Damage over Time spell and shows how long the DoT will last.
Colors your self buff and shows how long it will last.
etc
If you want to see every buff and debuff on a target you're better off using a mod that does that. It's not something Inline Aura does.